-lots of changes for debian 12 and desktop

-trying to fix vnc - has to be manually started on user desktop now

roles/common/vars/os_Debian_12.yml

@@ -0,0 +1,26 @@
+---
+dependency_packages:
+  - vim
+  - mc
+  - aptitude
+  - mtr
+  - screen
+  - cockpit-storaged
+  - cockpit
+  - sddm
+  - lxqt
+  - build-essential
+  - iperf3
+  - cadaver
+  - expect
+  - iperf
+  - libpcap0.8
+  - libsctp1
+  - libsctp-dev
+  - libssl-dev
+  - libpcap-dev
+  - libncurses-dev
+  - ncurses-dev
+  - chromium
+  - mtr
+  - screen